Communication Once Bad: What To Do?

When you encounter bad communication, it is often used to ask yourself the following questions, which will help you quickly adjust the way of communication.

Question 1: would I be willing to do something to make the communication situation now?

Question two: what is my definition of this matter?

Question three: can my definition now be a wrong interpretation or a wrong angle? Have I collected all the possible evidence?

Question four: what is the significance of this matter?

Question five: what should I do now to feel better? Do I need to change the way I look at things? Do I need more information or need to know the other side's perspective? Do I need to change the way I do things now? Do I need to make a commitment or apology for each other, or let him understand the current needs?

Question six: how can I do more effective communication so as to further communicate with each other and enhance interpersonal relationship?

Question seven: what good will it do to me?

When you encounter bad communication, you should write the answers to these questions on paper. At the critical moment, it will enlighten you to overcome the difficulties of communication and find a better way of communication, rather than making the situation worse or taking patience and repression.